Are You A True Leader?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says real leaders need two qualities, one of the head and one of the heart.
That is Sensibility of the Head and Sensitivity of Heart.
Often in the feminine leadership model we witness a woman operating completely from the sensibility standpoint, very rational and logical, coming more from the masculine without opening to her feminine sensitivity.
Then on the flipside we can witness the ultra sensitive female leader who doesn’t last for long because her sensitivity becomes emotional instability.
The question becomes how do you be Sensitive and Sensible all at the same time?
There are two keys to Emotional Stability
1. Be Responsible for Your Emotions
I’ve heard this many times and I’m sure you have too
“Someone made me feel like this" & "someone made me feel like that"
It simply isn’t true because no-one can MAKE YOU feel a certain way!
Another person can only trigger a set of patterns and behaviors within you that make you react a certain way. It is time to break this patterning and become emotionally responsible and stable.
2. Open Your Heart
Emotional stability comes from having an open heart. Having an open heart for yourself and having empathy and compassion for others.
Now I know, because I’ve witnessed it, there are many of you who are either creating emotional storms (mini tornadoes) for others or you are somehow caught in someone elses tornado! How did that happen - is it due to your own emotional instability?
Their desires and emotions are greater than your own desire to follow your hopes, your dreams, and be a leader.
When your heart is OPEN (truly) it is impossible to be emotionally unstable.
To experience the storm and your feminine craziness your heart must be closed and this is how you are easily lead away from your true path.
A feminine leader who has a beautiful balance of sensitivity and sensibility is Marianne Williamson. When I’ve been in Marianne’s presence she has been compassionate to herself and others and she speaks and acts with reason and logic. She is an incredibly powerful and sensitive woman.
Now is your time. Open to your sensitivity and sensibility and be a Leader.
Watch my latest episode of NatashaTV where I share more about Sensitivity and Sensibility
Your Mantra for Your Soul:
I am Open
I am Stable
I am a Leader
Experience how it feels to be open, stable, and compassionate. Your leadership depends on it.
Your leadership is important. The way you conduct yourself in groups of people, the way you shine your light and show what is possible is what your leadership is all about. People will love to experience the stability you bring and your great sense of reason and logic.
There are many people who deserve to be touched by what you have to offer.
Until next time...
Shine your light, be present, and love your life
by Natasha Girvan